Incredible You- Chapter 1


How to I build my self esteem?

First thing First;  Discover yourself!!!…

Life is a gift, but to revel in it, you must be ready to put a lot into nurturing yourself/being and skills.

Start early, start now. Learn to practice in order to master your skills (both weakness and strength).

Never.Ever.Stop.Focusing , whether in good or bad times. Be passionate about your work…and that could be a good start!

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Have you got what it takes???

To the question above… Yes! Ofcourse.

Just prepare your mind…get ready to revel in it. You are the only one who can truthfully say something about yourself. The only problem we might have here is, you haven’t got to know 100% of yourself.

    Whenever I read other people’s success story, I feel overwhelmed and more so encouraged. You wanna know why? You probably have read most on the magazine, newspapers etc, these stories possess every bit of this; altitude, persistence, action, passion, and a slew of of other qualities. These stories unintentionally give us tips on how to be successful ourselves. Come think of it …isnt those qualities what we really do need to be successful ourselves?

    Most people have been dragged into the make-believe world where things look a lot easier, when in reality it’s not. Most things seen in the movies, magazines or even write-ups are harder than you think. Ok…let’s see. You hear of the richest man in the world. You feel excited. You wanna be rich instantly. Now, you actually forget the true lesson or message of the story line. Have said you to yourself ‘ How did they become rich? How did they attain that height? What made them so popular amd well known?’

     You’re in a world where you are not given or paid what you worked for or deserve but what you fight for, struggle for or stand for. Be careful and do things rightly.

     There is no one else like you in the entire world. You’re the only true original of yourself. Learn to appreciate what makes you unique and use it to your best effect to get the great results you desire— Know what works best for you!


What I think you must have…

How to be productive


I would like to key into the old saying even though lately it’s accuracy is being argued, ‘ Experience is the best teacher ‘

          It is in experience(whether personal or the one from others) you get knowledge. It should be noted that you need general knowledge, basic understanding, or better ideas that are presentable. In doing that you give your self a stage to perform. For example, in writing I need an experience to know what to write, how to organize my work, expressions etc. If I must sing, I should know what to sing, what type of music, how or what to compose, where to sing, my target audience, etc.

      Do you know there are lots of people out there who never went to a good school or even a university when they had their success story told?

What you need is knowledge, then you are going to have so much better chance.

      The formula for knowledge, which is the best way to learn, is studying the history of successes or failures in your industry or field. No knowledge is a waste! Just a little knowledge could catapult you to a very high level.

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Right attitude! Yeah… You shouldn’t expect to discover yourself or talent when you haven’t made up your mind and you do nasty things( let’s say becoming drunk always, smoking, cheating, stealing, you know them) and cause problems to the society. You can’t succeed when you have that non-chalant attitude.

There are so many advantages with keeping up a good attitude. A little story here…

Exam yourself -Do I have the right attitude?

Well, have the right attitude and see what is going to happen.

Another is the attitude of believing the best about others. Note that you shouldn’t be bent out of shape when they disappoint you, just like I said nobody is perfect, including you. Just be grateful for the people that bring Joy and endeavour to be counted among many.

Read what Charles Swindoll said:

“… Attitude to me is more important than facts. It is more important than the  past, than education,  than money, than circumstance, than failures, than success, than what other people think, say or do. It is more important than appearance, gift or skill. It will make or break a company – a church or home, friendship. The remarkable thing is that we have a chioce everyday regarding the attitude we embrace for that day. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me amd 90% how I react to it. And so with you. We are in charge of our attitude “.

Also, you need to have a big thinking attitude. Always think big.

When you realize this, the next thing on the attitude list is to choose your A-TEAM (attitude team). They are those people who help in building you up. As far as I have discovered, your A-team could be your parents, friends at school, co-workers, siblings, relatives like your Uncle and Aunties, your teachers etc. But sincerely, your A-team always change over a period of time. It all depends on choosing the right team. The team or company you follow matters. They include:

1. The jealous team.

2. The imitator team.

3. The parasitic team.

4. The secretive team.

5. The attitude team.

How do i work on a team

                           The Jealous Team

*    They make you competitive( in a wrong way).

*     Make you seek to impress.

*     You loose your  identity and become fake.

                           The Imitator Team

* Steal ideas from you and imitates without knowing the cause of the actions.

* They can’t discover themselves and live in other People’s world.

* They drain you.

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Most people just want to be like others. They forget who they are. They think something is wrong with them, when in reality they are perfectly fine. They fail to discover themselves and forget we all are not the same.

     I discovered that some  know the truth but are just ignorant and some know but can’t figure out where to start from.

No man on earth is without a gift or talent. If you say you don’t have, at least your life is a gift and you reading this is a talent. When you are able to discover yourself, you have to set out rules(not for others) that you must adhere to. You must be disciplined enough to do what is right.

Another aspect is that your association matters. You must choose the right people who would improve you (don’t worry all has been addressed in this book). Learning to use it wisely (talents) and connecting with God because he is the true source of wisdom.

How to dream big @house of upbeat

Your dream is your creative vision for your life in the future. It is what you’ll like life to become for you. It is a microscope through which we look at the hidden occurrences in our soul. Dreams are answers to questions we haven’t yet figured out how to ask. They are like the paint of the great artist. Your dreams are your paintings of the world in your canvas. Believing is the brush that converts your dreams into a master piece. Success is the work done by the brush manifesting the masterpiece.

How to be successful @houseofupbeat

     All our dreams can come to pass if we have the courage to pursue them. Empty pockets never hold anyone back,  empty heads and hearts do! I tried drawing out  how this works:


Other Qualities (passion, courage, persistence, patience, etc) ———————>>


Thinking ahead means planning. Creating your future requires planning. This means you have to ask yourself , ‘ Where am I at this point in my life? What do I want to be in the nearest future?’ . After that draw up your priorities and always stay on target, making sure the targets you made are very beneficial to you and achievable. Believe you can, successful people do not assume , hope or expect without doing these things. One thing you must never do is underestimate yourself. You should have self motivation because Success requires mining the golf in your mind. Never think of yourself as inferior!

       Majority of the successful people I know never began from the top. Eg,  Ben Carson. Some were never do-wells, but these people actually believed they could make it and they did. If you believe you deserve the good things in life, begin to unleash power that will make your dream a reality today. Of course it wouldn’t take just a day but every step will take you closer to achieve your dreams. Be. Strong. And. Take. Action!!!

Every chapter of this book has a unique teaching. Read on…as every new discoveries encourages you to become self dependent . It has the style of using the good-old ways to make you attain self love.


I would be posting Chapter one in the coming weeks.

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