5 simple ways to master the Art of Self Discovery.

BEGINNING– The dreamy days

I came across a note book that seemed so familiar. Quickly, I went through it and by the time I was at the last pages, I was smiling widely and giggling.

Here is what I saw in that old book of about 4years:

For my school—

Lord, decide the course I would study in the university.


Want to be a model and role model to others.

Want to open my website.

Want to publish my book.

This year—

Get into first year in the university.

Open my website before the year is over.

Completed at least two script.

By the time I was done, I realized that my current happenings is a manifestation of all the thoughts, ideas and dreams I had pen down. Even when I walked through some tough parts of life and I lost myself in such process, the mind collectively organizes them. They build up and store our motives/drives subconsciously. How wonderful our brain and mind can be.

Life is a process and all may not be achieved at the moment but gradually things will fall in place, if we move on more intentionally.

It was just that book, there are similar note books which I unintentionally had every year and I figured out I kept building upon each idea/plan created in the past.

1. Dream, Dream, Dream.

All you need to do is dream. Respect and make use of your quiet time. Evaluate your passion, fear, aspirations. Let all your ideas flow and trust me there will be a lot of crazy ideas, but that is okay.

2. Proceed to pen them down.

Pen those thoughts down. When you do so you tend to accomplish them and have a clearer view. Do a lot of random writing, there is no rule to this, they are your personal thoughts so enjoy it.

3. Organize your thoughts and see how achievable they can be.

Just like you saw in the story above, organize them and connect them. Try to write out how you are going to achieve each of them. Be open to learn new stuffs.

4. Process

Life is a process. Understand that everything takes time and all may not be achieve now but your intentional and consistent act would go a long way. Process every thought and be conscious about your circle and the kind of energy you bring into it. Is that energy right for my personality? Is it of any help to my goals and aspirations?

Ask questions for things you have no idea about. Learn how this work in such field and work on finding a balance.

5. Take action.

Simple. All the above point will remain in your head and book if this last step is ignored. Baby steps, gradual intentional actions, consistency are all part of the game.

Don’t forget that luck happens when opportunity mets preparation.

What way did you master this art? I would love to hear your thoughts in the comment section.


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6 thoughts on “5 simple ways to master the Art of Self Discovery.

  1. I was recommended this blog by my cousin. I am not sure
    whether this post is written by him as no one else know such detailed about my problem.
    You are wonderful! Thanks!

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  2. Once again another teaching and inspirational post. What I would like to see you try is storytelling. Storytelling helps people remember messages and in the story the message is gifted inside. The stories connect while lists and good advice often don’t.

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