Incredible You- Chapter 1


How to I build my self esteem?

First thing First;  Discover yourself!!!…

Life is a gift, but to revel in it, you must be ready to put a lot into nurturing yourself/being and skills.

Start early, start now. Learn to practice in order to master your skills (both weakness and strength).

Never.Ever.Stop.Focusing , whether in good or bad times. Be passionate about your work…and that could be a good start!

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Have you got what it takes???

To the question above… Yes! Ofcourse.

Just prepare your mind…get ready to revel in it. You are the only one who can truthfully say something about yourself. The only problem we might have here is, you haven’t got to know 100% of yourself.

    Whenever I read other people’s success story, I feel overwhelmed and more so encouraged. You wanna know why? You probably have read most on the magazine, newspapers etc, these stories possess every bit of this; altitude, persistence, action, passion, and a slew of of other qualities. These stories unintentionally give us tips on how to be successful ourselves. Come think of it …isnt those qualities what we really do need to be successful ourselves?

    Most people have been dragged into the make-believe world where things look a lot easier, when in reality it’s not. Most things seen in the movies, magazines or even write-ups are harder than you think. Ok…let’s see. You hear of the richest man in the world. You feel excited. You wanna be rich instantly. Now, you actually forget the true lesson or message of the story line. Have said you to yourself ‘ How did they become rich? How did they attain that height? What made them so popular amd well known?’

     You’re in a world where you are not given or paid what you worked for or deserve but what you fight for, struggle for or stand for. Be careful and do things rightly.

     There is no one else like you in the entire world. You’re the only true original of yourself. Learn to appreciate what makes you unique and use it to your best effect to get the great results you desire— Know what works best for you!


What I think you must have…

How to be productive


I would like to key into the old saying even though lately it’s accuracy is being argued, ‘ Experience is the best teacher ‘

          It is in experience(whether personal or the one from others) you get knowledge. It should be noted that you need general knowledge, basic understanding, or better ideas that are presentable. In doing that you give your self a stage to perform. For example, in writing I need an experience to know what to write, how to organize my work, expressions etc. If I must sing, I should know what to sing, what type of music, how or what to compose, where to sing, my target audience, etc.

      Do you know there are lots of people out there who never went to a good school or even a university when they had their success story told?

What you need is knowledge, then you are going to have so much better chance.

      The formula for knowledge, which is the best way to learn, is studying the history of successes or failures in your industry or field. No knowledge is a waste! Just a little knowledge could catapult you to a very high level.

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Right attitude! Yeah… You shouldn’t expect to discover yourself or talent when you haven’t made up your mind and you do nasty things( let’s say becoming drunk always, smoking, cheating, stealing, you know them) and cause problems to the society. You can’t succeed when you have that non-chalant attitude.

There are so many advantages with keeping up a good attitude. A little story here…

Exam yourself -Do I have the right attitude?

Well, have the right attitude and see what is going to happen.

Another is the attitude of believing the best about others. Note that you shouldn’t be bent out of shape when they disappoint you, just like I said nobody is perfect, including you. Just be grateful for the people that bring Joy and endeavour to be counted among many.

Read what Charles Swindoll said:

“… Attitude to me is more important than facts. It is more important than the  past, than education,  than money, than circumstance, than failures, than success, than what other people think, say or do. It is more important than appearance, gift or skill. It will make or break a company – a church or home, friendship. The remarkable thing is that we have a chioce everyday regarding the attitude we embrace for that day. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me amd 90% how I react to it. And so with you. We are in charge of our attitude “.

Also, you need to have a big thinking attitude. Always think big.

When you realize this, the next thing on the attitude list is to choose your A-TEAM (attitude team). They are those people who help in building you up. As far as I have discovered, your A-team could be your parents, friends at school, co-workers, siblings, relatives like your Uncle and Aunties, your teachers etc. But sincerely, your A-team always change over a period of time. It all depends on choosing the right team. The team or company you follow matters. They include:

1. The jealous team.

2. The imitator team.

3. The parasitic team.

4. The secretive team.

5. The attitude team.

How do i work on a team

                           The Jealous Team

*    They make you competitive( in a wrong way).

*     Make you seek to impress.

*     You loose your  identity and become fake.

                           The Imitator Team

* Steal ideas from you and imitates without knowing the cause of the actions.

* They can’t discover themselves and live in other People’s world.

* They drain you.

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3 thoughts on “Incredible You- Chapter 1

  1. You write very well, and the post is excellently organized and is easy on the eye to read and follow. I believe the quotes is from “Swindoll” and you misspelled his name by accident. Super post and I am sure you are an upbeat author.

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